CONGREGATION FOR PEACE AND TRANSFORMATION
PURIFICATION AND TRANSMUTATION
PEACE, LIGHT AND LOVE
WHY I AM MISINTERPRETED AND JUDGED?
Hello, Masters! Gratitude! First, I would like to understand a little why have I been dreaming about umbanda entities, without ever having attended a center? I've been questioning about spirituality. I'm kind of lost in my thoughts. Sometimes I think and attract bad things, for example, I always get involved in some gossip: it's already been 4 and I always go out as the mistaken one in the story. I also would like to know if some day, the people I hu have hurt will forgive me. I feel bad for it, for having offended the family of a friend of my husband. The father of this boy has already died, but the mother and the sister say they feel very hurt of me, and for having discovered wrong things about my mother-in-law, made the biggest confusion in the family. I feel the worst person in the world, I wanted this feeling to go away because I do not feel good about it. Well, that's my question. Thank you Masters.
Daughter, experiences must be transcended as of our inner change. For as long as you maintain this pattern, these situations cannot be solved. This cycle of pain and suffering is created by yourself while trying to interfere with situations that do not concern you. Learn to move away, to be at peace and take care of yourself. Stop giving importance to the external, and you will see this cycle be interrupted. If you do not change your own behavior, your way of reacting, you will be facing these cycles of pain in your life. Free yourself.
I am Lis
WAS IT A RIGHT DECISION TO BREAK UP?
Beloved Masters, thank you for all the guidance you have given me throughout this year. My desire to start a family, at age 45, caused me to use cell phone applications to meet men. There were not many, but among the four I met, the latter seemed to be a serious person and verbalized that he had a desire to set up a family with me. We had happy moments, including with his son, who I met since the first meeting, and is a blessed boy. However, during the conversation I found out that he had hidden some important things, besides having a history with debt processes and another of aggression to an ex girlfriend, and promiscuous behaviors which has occurred six years ago. I also noticed some misunderstandings between what he said and did, which made me doubt the truth of what he was saying. I assessed all the situations and I thought that this relationship was not going to be harmonious, since I did not trust him anymore and we decided to finish. However, I miss him, the moments we lived and the plans we have made. I wonder if I made the right decision or whether I made it based on the judgments of my mind, since some facts that influenced my decision took place years ago. How would the Masters guide me? Thank you.
Daughter, greetings with all the love I have in my heart. There are encounters and disagreements in life. Each of them brings us an apprenticeship. In that case you were able to detach yourself, to be in doubt and do what you wanted. Look and compare yourself to that person who longed to find a partner. This is evolution. Stay in peace, my beloved sister. You will find your partner when you are confident on this path, to be happy and not to be with another at any cost. You followed your heart and so it must be. Use this learning with patience, and the best will come into your life.
I am Rowena
Congregation for Peace and Transformation - August, 2017.